SEX EDUCATION (1) काम-शिक्षा
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One must observe celibacy-Chasity till the age of 25 years.
He should discard masturbation, reading-watching any thing which stimulate, attract, indulge or divert him towards sexuality.
He must not indulge in sensuality, sexuality and avoid passions.
After marriage he should be satisfied with his wife and must not enter into sexual relations with any one else. Its advisable to have sex with his wife only and that is too during the period of ovulation only, once in a lunar month only.
He must gather the knowledge of sex from a reliable source only.
Sole purpose of these chapters is to educate the youth. Scriptures have discussed-described sex in detail to prevent the innocent from acquiring knowledge from wrong-polluted sources.
One should reject all sorts of comforts, maintain celibacy-chastity of eight forms, sleep over land, reject home and live under the tree by rejecting all sorts of affection, allurements.
इसका मूल उद्देश्य वंश वृद्धि है।
स्त्री और पुरुष में लिंग भेद है जो सन्तति के लिये आवश्यक है। इसका सम्बन्ध आनन्द से भी है। इस विषय में कामसूत्र का अध्ययन किया जा सकता है। जहाँ योनि मैथुन प्राकृतिक है वहीं
हस्तमैथुन, गुदामेथुन, मुख मैथुन, पशु मैथुन अप्राकृतिक रोगकारक, मानसिक विकृति का द्योतक है।
भोग और रोग एक सिक्के के दो पहलू हैं। ब्रह्मचर्य आरोग्य का मूल है। मैथुन के आठ प्रकार ::
(1). दृष्टिकोण मैथुन :- पुरुष या स्त्रियों को कामुक भाव से देखना, विपरीत लिंगी को कामुक भावना से देखना।
(2). उन्हें स्पर्श करना :- उसके रूप-गुणों का वर्णन करना,स्त्री-पुरुष सम्बन्धी चर्चा करना या गीत गाना।
(3). केलि मैथुन :- दूसरे पक्ष को रिझाने के लिए शारीरिक मुद्रा से इशारे करना, जो मैथुन में सहायक होने से सविलास की क्रीड़ा करना माना जाता है।
(4). स्त्री-पुरुष के गुणों की प्रशंसा करना।
(5). गुप्तभाषण ;- एकांत में संताप करना, मैथुन सम्बन्धी गुप्त बातें करना अथवा पुरुष-स्त्री का छुपकर वार्तालाप करना, कीर्तन से इसमें छिपने मात्र का भेद है।
(6). संकल्प मैथुन :- कामुक कर्म का दृढ़ निश्चय करना, मैथुन करूँ ऐसी तरंग का मन में उठना।
(7). अध्यवसाय ;- तुष्टिकरण की कामना से स्त्री के निकट जाना, मैथुन करने का उपाय करना , अपराध-मुक्त करना, लोभ-प्रलोभ देकर, आगे-पीछे चक्कर कटकर या अन्य प्रकार का उद्योग करना।
(8). क्रिया निवृत्ति अर्थात् वास्तविक रति क्रिया :- जानबूझ कर लिंगेद्रिय से वीर्यपात-रजपात की क्रिया करना मैथुन क्रिया से बचना ही ब्रह्मचर्य है।
केलि :: खेल, क्रीड़ा, रति, आनंदक्रीड़ा, काम-व्यापार, संभोग, मौजमस्ती, विनोद, लीला, sexual intercourse, mating.
प्रेक्षण :: किसी काम, चीज या बात को किसी विशेष उद्देश्य से ध्यानपूर्वक देखने रहने का भाव, tendency to watch see, observe sexual intercourse performed by others.
गुह्य :: गुप्त रखने योग्य, रहस्यमय, छल, कपट, रहस्य, भेद; occult, revealing secrets of sexual life, intercourse, mating.
कामातुराणां-न लज्जा-न भयम् :- इस सूक्ति का अर्थ है कि काम-कामनाओं से पीड़ित-आतुर व्यक्ति को न लज्जा आती है एवं न ही उसे भय लगता है। अर्थात काम वासनाओं से पीड़ित-काम पिपासु-कामातुर व्यक्ति विवेकहीन हो जाता है; इसमें लेशमात्र भी संशय नहीं है, एवं अविवेकी व्यक्ति अपनी काम तृष्णा की संतुष्ठी के लिए निर्लज्ज होकर-भयहीन हो कर किसी भी जघन्यतम कार्य के लिए उद्दत रहता है। काम तृष्णा का स्वभाव है कि उसे एक बार तृप्त करने का उपाय अथवा प्रयत्न करने पुनः अतृप्ति की अवस्था को प्राप्त हो जाती है।जिस प्रकार अग्नि में घृत की आहुति देने से अग्नि शांत नहीं होती अपितु अधिक प्रज्वलित होती है, उसी प्रकार काम तृष्णा की सन्तुष्टि भी उसे शांत करने के स्थान पर अधिक उत्तेजित-प्रज्जवलित करती है, पिपासा को जागृत करती है।
Will it be possible to check the spread of HIV and VD through this tool?
Fashion shows are arranged only to spread nudity and encourage girls to wear less and show more. Where is the need for such vulgar affairs?
Parents needs to be more vigilant and escort the girls as far as possible.Girls and women should resist the temptation of moving unsafely at night.They should not believe any unknown person or take life.
The carrier conscious woman is willing-ready to offer-sacrifice-sell, her modesty-everything for reaching the highest echelon. She enjoys the game of power and lust. She want to keep the trophy child born out of this relationship. She has no concern-sympathy for the family of the mate-love bird.The day she entered into this unholy relationship she knew that it will be easy for her to extract money from the mate. She put both the lover and the company into trouble. A win-win situation for the woman with loose character-morals-ethics. Still one has to remember that, for clapping, both hands are essential.
It has turned into a menace. Frequent misuse of rape laws by "women for vengeance and vendetta to harass and blackmail their boy friend for extorting money and even to force the help less man to marry them." A woman first has consensual sex but later files a case of rape, against boy friend, after they break up to force him to marry her, making a mockery of the marriage-out of anger and frustration, defeating the very purpose of the (penal) provisions.
False rape cases by helps: 82 year old resident acquitted of rape charges by the maid, for extraction of money. Copy of the order is being sent to the Secretary, Union Ministry of Law and Justice, Delhi Government, Chairperson, National Commission for Women and Commissioner (West) of Delhi Police. Antecedents of such women must be verified and they should be sent to Prison for 7 years, at least.
The woman first alleged that she has been raped by her former boss, but later compromised. The judge asked the police to investigate, if she has lodged complaints of this nature against others as well. Prosecution urged to court not to quash the FIR stating that the criminal justice machinery had been misused by the woman and curiously requested the court to fine both the accused and the so called victim. [Delhi HC-27.07.2013]
The judge wondered from the very day, the accused-a frail old man of 75 unable to stand erect, would rape a young woman in mid 30's, jhaving more strength than the accused. It was said that the rape cases are taken as gossip, leading to labeling of Delhi for its notoriety, as the rape capital. [Delhi-ASJ, 27.07.2013]
On Nov.03, National Report.net Published "The Assam Rape Festival in India Begins This Week". A stupid thing which is un heard off by those who were born and brought up on this soil. Attempts have been made to dilute the story by calling it a satire(-form of writing holding up a person or society to ridicule or showing the foolishness or wickedness of an idea).
Italy's highest court has overturned the conviction of a 60 year old man for having sex with an 11 year old girl because the lower court's verdict failed to take into account their amorphous relationship. The lower court failed to appreciate the consensus and absence of physical force in addition to the girl's feeling of love.[31.12.2013]
Dylan Farrow, now 28, adopted daughter of Allen, has said that she was abused as a seven year old child, by him. At this stage, the accusations sound to be disgraceful and untrue. The motive behind the allegations needs to be probed. What does she gain by this episode: publicity, wealth or even more.बदनाम होंगे तो क्या नाम न होगा ?बद अच्छा बदनाम बुरा । It good to be bad than defamed.[New York 03.02.2014]
Tougher rape laws are leading to increase in false cases. In 2013 out of 318 cases 237 acquittals were there. Common reasons cites for filing false rape charges are: Un kept promises, soured relations, recovery of dues from the accused & other disputes along with extra marital affairs. Experts feel that the new law is widely-worded and ambiguous and lands itself to misuse.[Delhi 22.02.2014]
MOHAN DASS KARAM CHAND GANDHI'S grand daughter Manu, daughter of Hari Lal revealed to him that her father had raped her 8 years ago, when she visited Saber Mati Ashram. She was so severely injured that she had to take medical treatment. This is the content of three letters written to Hira Lal by Bapu in Gujrati in 1935.[15.05.2014]
तुषार गांधी का कहना है ट्रांसलेशन गलत किया गया है। रेप मनु का नहीं, बल्कि साली-sister in law का हुआ था। [16.05.2014]
The Hon. Supreme Court asked the question, "whether a failed consensual relationship between adults lead to filing of rape charges against the man"? Though it did not pass an order, yet it expressed its anxiety over the recent spurt in such cases. The case pertains to a banker and former air hostess. The man is married with two children. The woman is highly qualified and net savvy. The woman threatened to circulate a an indecent video of her, calling it selfie of whole body. What type of relationship is it; Peculiar, cupid or stupid?![29.06.2014]
A number of boys are found, who like-prefer wearing cloths like girls. There are others who's voice is soft just like the girls. Some boys never grow beard and moustache over their face. Such children get them selves hooked to stout-strong males, further developing into gayism. Those children who are sent to hostels in their child hood hooks to this personality defect easily, in need of psychological attachment.
Those who had been females in their previous incarnations, too behave like this.
Supreme Court has ruled that gayism is crime under section 377 of IPC and has asked the government to do away with the relevant provisions which makes it a crime, if it desires so.
Good looking-girlish-feminist boys are lured-antinced to secluded places/remote/deserted places, where they are sodomized-sexually abused by the wretched boys/grown ups to satisfy lust and spoil the life of the victim. There are instances where own family members-friends-relatives are responsible for this behaviour. Those who victimize others might themselves be victims, at one stage. These people have the impact of internet-films-porn over them.Hostels are the places where the children fall pray to such criminals. The injuries are inflicted over the personality of the child, who may be exploited through out his life, if he remain silent or fail to report the matter to police, in time.Some times the lonely child-away from his parents, find solace in these vulgarities.
Those who favor it are crazy-mentally sick-nervous -wrecks.
Once this menace find support from the law, it will jump in leaps and bounds.
Gay-lesbian census is a must before the bill is put before the parliament for debate. If a few people close to the government want this, it should not be taken up at all. All those who claim to be gay must declare it.
There are the people who are born with genital defects turning gay, including third/trans genders.
Australia's highest court has turned down gay marriages on Thursday; that had begun after the land mark law was enacted. [12.12.2013]
Russian president Vladimir Putin defended conservative values referring to governments anti gay stance.West was chided for treating "good and evil" equally.[12.12.2013]
Political overtones forced Obama to sign off the law in favor of Gayism because of over 20% gay population. Is there a proof which show that 20% voters in US ae gay-Lesbians?[12.12.2013]
Where is the need for a law when consensual relationship of two individuals is behind the closed doors?!Where is the need for marriage when no one is obstructing you for your acts behind the closed door.
*Try to avoid such tasks-jobs-assignments-deeds, which lead to exertion, boredom, tiredness, fatigue, guilty feeling, shame.
*Be courageous & bold.
*Soon after the pragnancy the woman should desist from riding bike, driving.
*One should not eat beyond the limit. Too much eating-feeding is harmful.
Failure to take these precautions may lead to abortion.
DELIVERY OF CHILD: Extreme care is essential the mother and child to protect them from infections. The mother should be fed with nutritious balanced food. Milk is essential. She should be served butter, cheese and ghee. Laddoos made of wheat flour fried in pure deshi ghee, dry fruits, sounth (-सौंठ, dried and crushed-powered dried ginger), azwain (-अज़वाइन, carom seeds) gound (-गौंद, sticky mass which comes out of the tree's bark) and gud-jaggery are of extreme help to her. she should not be allowed to do domestic jobs for at least 40 days.
(1). SEX EDUCATION (1) काम-शिक्षा bhartiyshiksha.blogspot.com
(2). SEX EDUCATION (2) काम-शिक्षा :: VATSAYAYAN'S KAM SUTR वात्सायन का कामसूत्र bhartiyshiksha.blogspot.com
(3). SEX EDUCATION (3) काम-शिक्षा :: KAM SUTR कामसूत्र (AN ANCIENT INDIAN TREATISE ON VIRTUOUS LIVING & SEX) bhartiyshiksha.blogspot.com
(4). SEX EDUCATION (4) काम-शिक्षा :: KOK SHASTR-RATI RAHASAY कोक शास्त्र-रति रहस्य bhartiyshiksha.blogspot.com